Although we are responsible for our own happiness, when you are in a relationship, there are ways to make your woman happy. Whether she is your wife, life partner, or significant other, doing these small, yet significant things for her will make a difference.
#1 Be Generous with Compliments
One of the simplest things any person can do for another is to pay him or her a compliment. Whether you tell her that the meal she prepared for you was delicious or thanking her that she managed to get your mother a birthday gift she actually liked, tell her. Make it known. She cannot read your mind!
More importantly, compliment your woman on her appearance. Do not take for granted that she “knows” how you feel. Tell her you think she is beautiful. Our society places such a high value on looks, that many women need to hear that their man finds her attractive. This way to make your woman feel happy is especially true after she has a baby. The extra weight, the stretch marks, and the exhaustion of caring for a baby makes her less confident about her looks. She needs to hear that you still find her attractive.
And do not compliment her only because you want something in return. Women see through that a mile away, and it breeds resentment, not ardor.
#2 Appreciate Her and All That She Does
All people want to know that they are appreciated. On the job, there are performance reviews, rewards and bonuses given to employees who have gone the distance and helped improve the company’s bottom line.
Think about all that the woman in your life does for you and for others. Have you said, “I appreciate ___________.” Fill in what you appreciate her doing for you.
#3 Notice Changes in Her Appearance
Again, this is a very simple yet effective way to make keep your relationship happy. Did your woman change her hair color, change her hairstyle or lose ten pounds? For goodness sake, SAY SOMETHING! By saying nothing, you are ignoring her and making her feel insignificant.
#4 Take Care of Things Without Her Asking
Many men have blinders on when it comes to housework. They will step around the laundry basket full of clothing in front of the steps and not take it up the stairs. They will continue to pile dishes in the sink instead of emptying the dishwasher and putting the newly dirtied dishes in it.
From discussions I have had with many women, this is a top form of resentment. If something simple has to be done and it is obvious, why not just do it? Especially if your woman is in the middle of doing ten other things?
I will share a secret with you guys. Women like to brag about how much their husbands help them around the house. This is better than jewelry, which any woman can buy for herself. A man who helps around the house with chores is considered the real gem.
#5 Do the Chores She Hates to Do
This method of making your woman happy ties in with number four. There are always things that someone does not like to do around the house. For example, vacuuming may be something she dislikes to do. Think of yourself as a knight in shining armor as you vacuum the carpets. You’ll score big points with this one.
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